Today my adventure may have been a long one, and been challenging at times, but it is not one I will soon forget. I went to TreeGO in Moncton with eighteen of my favourite teenagers. That is right, I was crazy enough to try and brave the course with my little soccer babies. The biggest challenge I had was the heights. At some point in the last year I have developed a fear of heights, sometimes I am fine, and other times I am deathly afraid. Today was a bit of both. However I must admit it was one of the single most gratifying and rewarding experiences I have ever had.
My day started out a little late, I over slept, and of course in typical Morgan style had to race to get out the door on time. I managed to hit the road and make it there in plenty of time. I had a great little sing along/dance party in the car, and kept myself entertained. The drive flew by. Soon after I got there the ladies began arriving, and before you know it we were on the demo course trying to learn as much as we could before heading out on our own. After a little practice, and much debate about who was going to be in which group (always a struggle) we finally hit the first course.
The first course was not too bad, at all. It was enough to ease you into what you are you were about to be facing. The second course was a little longer, and a little tougher. Then we reach the third course, which was by far the longest, and certainly the most challenging for someone like myself who is afraid of heights. Mind you the girls were an excellent support system not only for me, but also for each other. Then there was the fourth course, which after the time I had on the third course I was not sure I was up to completing. However, there is no way those young ladies were going to allow me to sit this one out. They were facing their fears, and so should I. Just as the saying goes, feel the fear and do it anyway (plus this year is all about less talk more action, so I really could not put up much of a fight) They convinced me to climb the ladder, and do the course, which was not nearly as bad as I expected. Not only did they get me to go up there, they were my cheerleaders the entire time, looking out for me and supporting me.
When I unclipped myself from the very last zip-line, and I climbed down the ladder I could not have been more proud of myself for actually sticking with something I found intimidating and challenging. Furthermore I was so very proud of all of my girls for doing the same. I was also amazed to see how they handled themselves today. I really got a glimpse of who they will all be someday. There were the girls who knew their limits and knew when to stop; there were those who were balls to the wall. There were the ladies who had quiet confidence; there were ladies who were quietly uncomfortable. There were those who were willing to coach through the course, and those who needed to be coached and coaxed. The way in which they support each other (and me) is remarkable. I am lucky to know such wonderful young ladies, and I feel privileged to be a part of their life. They have taught me more about myself, and life than I could ever teach them. I cannot wait to see who they become, and what they achieve, because after three years of coaching them, and one afternoon on a TreeGO course I know that they have big things waiting for them.
I thought the course was going to be my biggest challenge, but it was the long lonely drive home. In an unfortunate turn of events I ended up going up alone today, which never usually bothers me, however today I was wiped from the afternoon adventures, and a busy few days. I just wanted to be home; by the time it was dark out I was constantly counting the minutes and kilometers until I would pull in my driveway. I left my house at ten this morning, and did not pull back in my driveway for another twelve hours. Mind you as long and as draining that drive home was I would not have missed today for the world. As I pulled out of Moncton with a smile on my face and the most beautiful sunset I had ever seen in my rearview mirror I knew I was in the right place, for once in my life.
(Pictures to come soon!!)